Well I suppose that talking is in order... I wish Lindsay would start blogging again. I really do. I'm so glad to be back and to be writing again that I wish everyone could feel that way. Lately, really, I've just been wanting people to feel as happy and lucky as I do. I was reading my journal from freshman year a few days ago, all my hopes and dreams and fears about high school. I had recorded everything anyone ever told me to expect, regarding teachers and being a cheerleader and just plain getting through. And, of course, there was that typical line, that cheesy one that adults like to repeat like a mantra, as though it can turn them back into a teenager again -- "High school was the best years of my life." I've realized that everything I was told was not correct; people dramatize and they embellish. There were no presumptions against cheerleaders, teachers that I went into a class fearing proved their merit, and I usually don't look at my classes as just something to get through. Except math. And why would high school be the best years of my life? Isn't that kind of sad when the happiest times a person can remember are the football games and pep rallies and worrying about exams? There is so much that comes afterward...I feel terribly for those people who think that life starts to decline after high school. There is so much more. Get out. Grow up. Win and lose. Hopefully more winning. I registered for my classes yesterday. I got into my acting class, and I'm on the waitlist for the journalism one. Off to see a movie. Tootles. Natalie
3 Comments:
At 5:44 PM, Anonymous said…
There is more to highschool besides football games and pep rallies and yes exams too. It's about the time of being free and no true responsibilities holding you down. Highschool is the best time of our lives. And It's going by quickly. It's time to start making the best of it, before the real world of jobs and money comes into play. Have fun being a teen.
At 11:23 PM, j. said…
high school cannot possibly be the best time of our lives. i had some of the best times of my life junior and senior year, so many life changing, memorable, fantastic times...
BUT after high school, you have college and all the freedom outside of your parent's home (i had freedom in h.s. too but living away is totally different). the years after college have been much more enjoyable and exciting.
in the end, high school is great and i'll never forget finding out what type of person i was and who my friends were and all that crap and then executing who i was after graduation when i could finally be on my own.
i don't know if that makes sense but i really feel like those ppl that think that the high school years are the best years of your life are delusional or didn't do much with their lives...my sympathies to them.
At 2:31 AM, Anonymous said…
i really dont feel it matters one way or another. i don't think there's anything wrong with feeling that way about high school but there seems to be a negative attitude towards it. for some people high school is the best time...and everyone has their reasons. could be because they never enjoyed college or never fit in anywhere really outside of high school or maybe it's from enjoying the innocence, naivity, and sheltered atmosphere many of us are privilidged to have though high school. personally i have had a much more positive college experience, ESPECIALLY after this year...not to say high school wont always be extremely memorable to me. i dont think we can ever really say that something in the past is the most memorable part of our lives because you never know whats around the corner. until this year i wouldve considered high school to be the best years of my life, but now i can say with certainty that up to this point in my life, my sophmore year of college has been by far the best and most memorable time of my life, but I'm sure there's even more exciting times to be had soon. to each his own and to each individual goes my respect for what they consider to be the best times of their life. just keep in mind what works for you may not work for other people, whatever it may pertain to.
John
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